Friday, 5 June 2015

Silenced springs





http://blog.newscom.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/rhphotos084555.jpg       Human beings are arguably the most successful species ever walked this magnificent planet. We evolved faster,   innovations and inventions heaping and there starts another problem. We are moving closer to destroying our own existence. Yes, we have turned arrogant. We no longer crave for that balance with nature. Instead we are trying to outrun nature despite the fact that we are just puppets. Every natural disaster actually demands that inevitable humility but we comfortably forget the truth as we are blinded by our arrogance.

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In India, especially in my home state, Kerala, natural resources are not scarce. Kerala is replete with thick vegetation and heavy monsoon. The lakes, water sources abound in fishes and other aquatic beings. A variety of flora and fauna brace this land. All this depleting faster, yet we are in a constant denial and conscious slumber. In my childhood, my leisure usually consisted of loitering the backyard, enjoying the beauty of the trees around, listening to birds singing their soul, dragon flies and butterflies lurking around. Rain was so refreshing that we kids run unabashedly and unclothed leaving behind the admonitions of an impending fever from our parents.  This merging of our soul with the nature around instilled a quintessential connectedness which refrain us from hurting nature as far as possible. I enjoyed my childhood in all ways as I got the amazing opportunity to go in tune with nature.  I doubt today’s children ever get that connectedness at all. They are glued to the computer screen so avidly that they often forget to enjoy even this sheer beauty of nature. Mobile phones and the gadgets play their part in the disconnectedness for sure. Agriculture and livestock management can ignite that connectedness with nature, but unfortunately people consider those to be dirty businesses, at least in this part of the world despite being an agrarian country.


          Our interference in the natural cycles had caused many repercussions in the form of tsunamis, earth quakes and climate change. Rampant deforestation, mining and killing spree of animals/birds had resulted in upsetting the balance of our planet. Global warming and melting of polar ice caps no longer remain as science fiction stories. Regaining that connectedness is the key here, I think. Our education should reclaim that connectedness and this world. Every attempt to educate the young on the importance of preserving nature is not futile. June 05, World environment day, is not just a day for planting trees, but should be an attempt to regain our roots. Plant as many trees as you can, don’t throw wastes especially plastics onto streets (rampant in Kerala) and save nature in all possible ways. The future generation is looking forward to us and it is a huge responsibility. We silenced the springs, but we don't know when they will roar back and plague upon us. Don't wait for the precipice to act.

Tuesday, 12 May 2015

Amazing video of ingenious cartooning


Well, below is the video of a person drawing cartoons quite ingeniously. He starts by drawing a "dick" or "vagina" and then transforming them to comic figures or persons, very thoroughly done so that you will not even see the dick or vagina later in the drawing. The idea is just awesome, after all we have a lot of fuss going on about those organs. Everybody have them and they are just organs. See it to believe!!!


Friday, 3 April 2015

Public display of affection of gay people

I don't think there is any difference in love between homosexual  and heterosexual people, there is no homo-love and hetero-love, just love. There is an ingrained belief in the society that gay people love differently. In Western countries, Public display of affection (PDA) between hetero-couples is very common but not so in the orthodox streets of India. It will definitely turn heads if a man and a woman kiss in public or hug in front of a crowd in India. Indian men won't even sit close to a women in transport buses and so did Indian women. But the situation is different when it comes to their own sex. Men can hug or hold hands in India without the ire of onlookers unlike a hetero-couple. Women also act very close in their group which will easily confuse a Western audience. That is the only relief for gay people in India. They can easily disguise their love in the garb of prevalent homo-social environment. Kerala men are definitely more homo-social (Ah, I wish it was more homosexual) than anywhere in India. They hold hands, hug each other, pat shoulders, laugh together, a fairly good amount of bodily intimacy exists which can even extend to sleeping together and bathing together (Well, there are many situations for sexual tension!!!). Not all such intimacy are gay but some definitely are. Moral policing is on the rise in Kerala. Some extremist groups are rallying against love displays in public saying that it is against Indian culture. They cannot even tolerate hetero-sexual bonding let alone homo-sexual affection. Here are some photographs of gay men and women in public setting in this era of moral policing.














Source
http://justsomething.co/all-love-is-equal-gay-couples-series-braden-summers/

Sunday, 15 February 2015

Another Valentines Day - Sighs!!!!

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Another valentines day passes by......

It is an irony that we celebrate a special day for love while all days should be like this very day.........embracing the very happiness and pain love inflict. When we talk about love, it is all about happiness, it is a kind of delirium, but love is also about pain, the longing, loss of a loved one, the lingering memories and "the pain" it gives is a kind of sweet one, weirdly sweet. Just check out this Leona Lewis song, "Bleeding Love" which says it all. Dear folks, keep bleeding in love.......................



Check out the lyrics of the song,

"Closed off from love
I didn't need the pain
Once or twice was enough
And it was all in vain
Time starts to pass
Before you know it you're frozen

But something happened
For the very first time with you
My heart melts into the ground
Found something true
And everyone's looking round
Thinking I'm going crazy
But I don't care what they say
I'm in love with you
They try to pull me away
But they don't know the truth
My heart's crippled by the vein
That I keep on closing
You cut me open and I
Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
I keep bleeding
I keep, keep bleeding love
Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
You cut me open
Trying hard not to hear
But they talk so loud
Their piercing sounds fill my ears
Try to fill me with doubt
Yet I know that the goal
Is to keep me from falling
But nothing's greater than the rush that comes with your embrace
And in this world of loneliness
I see your face
Yet everyone around me
Thinks that I'm going crazy, maybe, maybe
But I don't care what they say
I'm in love with you
They try to pull me away
But they don't know the truth
My heart's crippled by the vein
That I keep on closing
You cut me open and I
Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
I keep bleeding
I keep, keep bleeding love
Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
You cut me open
And it's draining all of me
Oh they find it hard to believe
I'll be wearing these scars
For everyone to see
I don't care what they say
I'm in love with you
They try to pull me away
But they don't know the truth
My heart's crippled by the vein
That I keep on closing
You cut me open and I
Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
I keep bleeding
I keep, keep bleeding love
Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
You cut me open and I
Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
I keep bleeding
I keep, keep bleeding love
Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
You cut me open and I
Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love"

Tuesday, 27 January 2015

The goat and the horse story

I stumbled upon this story accidentally on face book, but it is very relevant in this world. Everybody is competing with others for power, food, money, fame and at times, the whole game turns dirty. Ethics is a vanishing term and the deserving people usually get deserted. This story depicts such a situation heart-wrenchingly.

 Jack the goat, and Charlie the horse.

The goat and the horse

There was a farmer who had a horse and a goat.One day the horse became ill and he called the veterinarian who said "well, your horse is infected with a virus. He must take this medicine for three days. I'll come back on the 3rd day and if he's not better, we will be forced to put him down".

Nearby, the goat listened closely to their conversation.
The next day, they gave him the medicine and left. The goat approached the horse and said, "Be strong, my friend. Get up or else they're going to put you to sleep!"

On the second day also, they gave him the medicine and left. The goat came back and said, " Come on buddy, get up or else you are going to die. Come on, I'll help you get up. Let's go! One, two, three....", but to no avail.

On the third day, they came to give him the medicine and the vet said "Unfortunately, we're going to have to put him down tomorrow. Otherwise, the virus might spread and infect the other horses. After they left, the goat approached the horse and said " Listen pal, it's now or never! Get up, come on, have courage. come on! Get up! Get up! That's it, slowly, Great! 

All of a sudden, the owner came back and saw the horse running in the field and began shouting. "It's  a miracle! My horse is cured! We must have a grand grand party. Let us "kill the goat" !!!!!

Sad story. This often happens in almost all workplaces. Nobody truly knows who worked harder and deserve the real recognition or credit for the success or who is actually contributing the necessary support to make things happen. Bosses gain while the real people who worked hard will be sidelined. Good bosses will give the credit to their teams, but mostly, they take all the credit which is totally unethical.

Learning to live without recognition is actually a skill but considered a weakness by most professionals. If anyone tells you that your work is un-professional, remember: Amateurs built the Ark which saved all the species while the professionals built the titanic which lead to death of people tragically.

On a brighter note, this story also pins the effect of inspiration upon somebody's life. Some good words, a simple hug, a hearty smile, lending your ears, spending a few moments can do wonders. Join hands, live and let live,  grow together. We all have the power to touch somebody else's life.

Well, goats and horses seem to be good friends. Here is the real life story of a "compassionate goat" virtually baby sitting a helpless blind horse for years.But the owner too was compassionate and well appreciated the goat's efforts. So did the horse.



Saturday, 10 January 2015

The amazing Japanese gay manga paintings - a picture post

The Japanese manga features hyper-masculine men for gay male readers and is widely referred to as “bara”. Incidentally,  “bara” is actually an obsolete slang for homosexual men in Japan. Presenting some of them below. They even form part of fashion in Japan. Great indeed.



Some are smoking hot, at least for me!!!







 
The fundoshi wearing cuddly cuties are worth a look and quite lovable. Hope you liked them too.

Saturday, 3 January 2015

Celebrity coming outs in 2014 - a welcome change.

I always love the "coming out" of celebrities. That gives more visibility to the gay community and gives more confidence to the gay youth. So thought of compiling the famous personalities who "came out" in 2014. Check them out.

Sam Smith: the man with that gorgeous voice and hits like "stay with me" and "I am not the only one"  in his kitty. Worthy addition to the community.


Sports is one area where you won't find much candidates belonging to gay community. There may be enough gay men among sport stars, but no body comes out. Oops, this year we had many. Derrick Gordon (basketball player), Tom Luchsinger (Olympic hopeful, swimmer), Liam Davis, (pro soccer), Matt Llano (professional long distance runner), Thomas Hitzlsperger (pro soccer) Well done!


Well, the biggest sport star was Ian Thorpe, Olympic swimmer. Ah, I just love him!!

Then came some from business and politics -  Edgars Rinkēvičs, Latvia's foreign minister. Not bad at all.  Tim Cook, CEO of Apple, came out with a very relevant coming out commentary. Loved it.
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He said, “While I have never denied my sexuality, I haven’t publicly acknowledged it either, until now,” Cook wrote in an essay for Bloomberg BusinessWeek. “So let me be clear: I’m proud to be gay, and I consider being gay among the greatest gifts God has given me."
Others from show business...Lee Ryan (boy band member of the band Blue), Vicky Beeching (singer-songwriter), Andreja Pejic (Model), Patricia Yurena (Miss Spain 2008 and 2013), Ellen Page (Actress, X-Men: Days of Future Past)

Ellen page
Courtesy: Advocate.com
For more please read the detailed report in Advocate.com

Orlando - I feel hopeless!!!!